May I recommend....?
While I'm gathering together my pictures and whatnot, may I recommend taking a little field trip over to the True Womanhood blog? There's an exceptionally interesting discussion going on regarding a documentary and book put out by Ana Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin. Gentlemen, this discussion is quite germane to you as well since the Botkin sisters are trying to "reclaim" the father/daughter relationship. There are a lot of posts, but it's well worth reading through. This is scary stuff.